Dating sites success with UNA? Counseling needed.

If you have success with dating sites, what UNA apps do you use on your site? On my sites people love the messenger, but not one person has used the files app or the discussions app. People are using the videos, albums, and posts the most. No one has created products either. No one is using the paid groups feature. With dating, my conclusion is that allowing people to make money ruins the atmosphere and the idea of meeting real people. People on dating sites want every person to be motivated to meet in person, not to make money.

I think to make this easier on the site administrator, the site should make people pay to join. Even if its just a one time fee of $1 with PayPal to create the profile. Then they can pay monthly. This will make sure that every member has a strong motive for joining the site. I think this will intensify the interaction between members. This is what I would want when I join a dating site. I joined POF and their members aren’t always paying so its a waste of my time because we cant even communicate effectively. Tinder is wack. AFF is wack too and they actually kicked me off their site for sending messages and never paying. Can you believe that? Someone share a UNA dating site success story for us to learn from each other’s experience.